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5 Part II of #100daychallenge: angel numbers

As this #100daychallenge unfolds, I've been noticing how my daily writing is so "tip of the iceberg," and that I don't always explain things as much as I ought to for the reader. Even just after six days of this practice, insights I am experiencing are amazing! That the fun part about right now, I'm really not worrying myself about editing the daily blog posts. It's more about doing the practice everyday, enjoying the process and sharing whatever shows up.

Today, I wanted to explain and share about angel numbers because it's been helpful and fun to notice them. In yesterday's post, I did a drawing of a clock that had the time 12:34 on it, but I didn't explain why. Then, today I went upstairs to check my phone and it was 12:34pm and that inspired me to write a quick instagram post about my experience with angel numbers.

I'm adding the post below, so you don't have to toggle back and forth.

I enjoyed reading this post by Willow Soul about the significance of seeing the number sequence 1234. It's okay to be skeptical or have doubt about these things, but that shouldn't get in the way of the ability to give some consideration. Also, it's probably fair to say that it's likely that there really are no credible sources here, or that there are only credible sources, because what seems to be true is that it comes down to whether or not if we like something and feel comfortable with it or not. It doesn't matter. No one is more or less evolved or open-minded, because of their acceptance or doubt of something like angel numbers. It just means that people are different, in purpose, interests and what brings meaning at different times in their lives.

Here's the post:

Today: July 30, 2018

Today: July 30, 2018

8 months ago: December 20, 2017

8 months ago: December 20, 2017

  • blueprintwellness.life>>
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    12:34 is the time/number sequence that I’ve been noticing for several years, so of course, I had to @google it.
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    Noticing and following curiosity can add great value and fun to day -to-day life. Whether or not it’s ridiculously fun and meaningful or stupid and meaningless is a choice we get to make for ourselves.
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    I choose fun and meaningful when it comes to what I learned about “angel numbers.”
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    “Angel numbers are sequences of numbers that carry divine guidance by referring to specific numerological meanings.
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    In Numerology, the divine science of numbers, it is understood that each number carries with it a specific vibrational meaning that goes beyond a simple quantity.

    This vibrational frequency is similar in nature to the frequencies at which angels and other celestial beings resonate. Often, when our guardian angels want to get our attention they will send us a specific series of numbers which will appear in our experience again and again.

    It is the repetition of the sequence that will seem so uncanny and make you look wherever you can to find out more about what it might mean.” // www.thesecretoftarot.com
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    Phone wallpapers: 🌸 images @theheirloombouquet + @abeautifulmessapp
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    “See what you can do,” is a multidimensional reminder to take risks with a positive mindset, vision, celebrate and believe in my own power when it comes to living in fuller expression and purpose. I heard these words from a wise and clever @hoffmanprocess teacher JA. I liked the encouragement and wink that seemed to through in his voice. A few days later, I laughed when the multidimensional meanings hit me. Totally JA. Totally what I needed to embrace.
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    Four months later, on 12/20 I took a screengrab of 12:34, because I had just taken a huge risk and committed to an investment for myself and my business. A day or two later I unexpectedly, but peacefully left my full-time job. I am here. Almost 8 months later, still seeing 1234, still going.
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    #1234 #alltheloveandnoexcuses #brilliance #blueprintwellnesslife 
    #energywork #writer #fun

Follow @blueprintwellness.life to see my #writing #alltheloveandnoexcuses #100daychallenge unfold.

Brightly,

Laura

 

2 of #100daychallenge: Bite by bite. Write!

I meditated with Oprah & Deepak’s 21-day meditation before I started writing today. Sometimes, I listen to the meditation while lying in bed, because I feel too tired to sit. This morning, I sat in my chair at my desk in easy pose and enjoyed the experience. So many thoughts pass through my mind and sometimes I know where they come from within me, but other times thoughts or “visions” will surprise me. Today, I saw the image of an apple and the action of biting into that apple with great excitement and pleasure. It brought in thoughts about Eve and Adam in the Garden of Eden. I never really know what I thought about that story, because I've witnessed too many discussions that resulted in personal and spiritual harm. Today, I let my mind go in that direction.

What can I learn from that story right now, I wondered?

bite into curiosity
I M A G I N E
one bite changed an entire creation
I M A G I N E
one human's impact on an entire collective

I am reminded of why I choose to not share my thoughts in writing beyond a select few most of the time. It can be worrisome to know that I cannot control what others will choose to learn and take with them. My preference is to avoid instigating the creation of negative thoughts and energy in the collective awareness as a result of something I am sharing. When I get quiet, I hear and see the truths about what destruction, excess and support really look like in my thoughts, intentions and choices. This is a form of mindfulness that I have been practicing, because I am aware that I have choice and that my visual, verbal and energetic contributions have impact. Intention matters. My intention is for my choices to align with expression that connects and uplifts.

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What I can learn from that story right now is to write with curiosity “bite by bite,” because this allows the practice to become less serious and more interesting. Curiosity is the key that opens the door to imagination. Imagination is the space where so many of us go to get away from the forms and constructs that bind us, so that we may dream, ideate, and create as seriously and/or playfully as we feel. It doesn’t matter if what I’m taking away isn't what the creator intended when I've found clarity and learned more about myself. Learning more about myself is helping me see how I can have a positive impact on creation and the collective. And, now I see, it's my turn to let what is, be.

What are you learning today?

All the love and no excuses,

Laura
@blueprintwellness.life

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1 of #100daychallenge: writing

My friend, Kate, is on day 92 of her 100 day challenge and it's been really fun to see a new monster each day. I have a daily kundalini meditation practice and am on day 67 of my lifetime. I don’t intend to stop, but I’m not ready to stop counting because it keeps the flow of my practice going. We recently talked about how having a daily practice transforms and fortifies who we are and how we approach life and work. For me, this kind of practice is the embodiment of what I call #alltheloveandnoexcuses, my own hashtag, mantra, approach, or life principle that connects me to power, grace and honor for myself and others.

I am inspired by Kate’s monster work and #100daychallenge, so I’m taking her up on the suggestion to do my own 100 day challenge to:

  • Stop rebelling against my writing goals

  • Get myself to write everyday

  • Share my writing with others

  • Accept myself as a writer

  • Be a better writer

  • Lighten up and have fun

Follow @kate.jjj on instagram, she's the real deal and is making art constantly!

Follow @blueprintwellness.life to see my #writing #alltheloveandnoexcuses #100daychallenge unfold.

Brightly,

Laura
 

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∆ MeThree ∆

The conversation that has been brought forth into the collective awareness by Nanine McCool, Tony Robbins, MeToo and Tarana Burke has been pinging my core. I see it as a phenomenal event that has allowed tension and separation to emerge and create an opening into a new dimension where the opportunity for real change exists. A new space has been opened, but has not been acknowledged. The media statements are being posted in the arena and all of our attention focused on what is being posted is what prevents us from noticing the arena has expanded.

 

What I observed in the *video* demonstrates how we communicate toward each other, consider only from our own position and point of view, and brush right past the other’s thoughts to get back to our own. On the inside, we are hoping to be heard, recognized and understood. On the outside, there is some sense of demonstration that we must represent and throw down.

 

What happened here is exactly what's happening in the micro and the macro:

Both just want to be heard.
Each one is not listening to the other.

 

What follows is my humbling attempt to learn more about how Nanine, Tony, Tarana and MeToo are affecting me and what I can do. 

 

Dear Nanine McCool, Tarana Burke and Tony Robbins,

I invite you all to come to St. Paul, MN to join me and take all the time in the world to have the real conversation that began to emerge in March. Literally, “middle ground,” seems worthy and wonderful for a meeting place; plus, the snow is finally gone here. Who am I? I’m still learning a lot about who I am and I think it will always be this way, but one thing that I have been learning is that I am more of an everyone than a someone or a no one.

I want to share with you what I experienced and am considering after observing some of the videos, articles and comments.

I found myself feeling sad and filled with a great urgency.
I felt small within the expansive vision of opportunity that I could see had been opened.
I felt desperate and far away from these people whom I do not know, but whom I care about and who are causing each other, themselves and countless others pain and distraction from purpose.
I know with certainty that if I could sit with them, we could show the world what it is to change and how it is a one-to-one process and practice, beginning with self.
It feels embarrassing to me that I feel these things so profoundly that I am losing my inhibition, but this is what happens when the message and vision of what we see is greater than ourselves and we understand it belongs to every one and every thing. Those are not typos. Those are carefully selected and written words.

You are every, you are one, you are every thing.
And, when you know what this means and you experience yourself in this way, you will know your part and your whole; and you will be able to recognize the same in others and all things.
There are many given truths at any given time. All the time.
There is Truth in Understanding and Understanding in the Truth.
At best, we are whole and complementary.
Now, let’s have a conversation.
For real, #alltheloveandnoexcuses
Join me in conversation and we will practice what this means in real life. I am here, so I’ll start by sharing what I am noticing and experiencing.
There is an opportunity to open up the etheric, larger conversation about what’s happening.
The urgency that I feel is that we cannot let this opportunity pass.
Especially, because people who are leaders are involved. Leaders who have this public opportunity to demonstrate change in the way that is aligned with their purpose and their mission, and will have massive impact now and in the future.
Full disclosure, I have attended Business Mastery with Tony Robbins and am inspired by his work.
I am a woman. I recognize, support and am inspired by the positive impact and work of MeToo.
I am a multi-dimensional being. I recognize the impact of my thoughts, sound and receptivity.
All this with my whole self. Imperfect as I am perfect.

Below, is what I wrote the evening I first saw the video as I was trying to understand the interaction and the reactions to the interaction.

 

I think that Tony should consider inviting Nanine McCool to sit down and talk through this with playback from the event on-screen.

 

This is something that Tony can do. He can listen to her and hear her in the way she needs to be listened to and heard.

 

In a sense it would be like Tony Robbins getting Tony Robbins’d.

 

And, the conversation with Nanine and Tony should go on as long as it needs to go until they work it out, because this is the type of thing people are not doing in real life and why everyone’s energy is focused on their own pain and suffering. We are all hurting, not just from our own experiences, but also from witnessing the experiences of others.

 

It is interesting to try and understand what Tony was trying to point out and why, because it did challenge my vision and understanding of him; which, in turn seemed to challenge my sense of myself and my experience. After much mental and emotional processing, I think I do understand what he was getting at and I do feel it is a very important part of the conversation that must be brought into our realm of awareness with more clarity.

 

We think we are making a new kind of history right now. From one dimension, we most certainly are, but from another dimension it looks like we are headed in the same old side-to-side tug of war. We’ve been here before and we are on our way back to this very place, with another population of precious, human lives — it is worthy of noting that this is something I’d like to elaborate more about in a face-to-face conversation to explain — please do not waste any time or energy imagining what I might be saying. YES, the pain and suffering is real and matters; YES, people need to be accountable; YES, people need to be heard; YES people need support and healing — I believe that Tony is whole-heartedly saying YES to all of this and more.

 

What I was able to take into consideration is that his point touches on the idea that the MeToo movement is a part or perhaps the start of a multi-dimensional healing process and this language and perspective is not from an intention to minimize any person or any part of the experience. In fact, it is actually acknowledging the depth and expansiveness of the process and experience. There is so much more that goes into the healing process and when a person’s energy and emotion is being directed at anything outside themselves (including positive support like MeToo), it eventually becomes a distraction and can delay the individual healing process. This is not to diminish the significance or importance of recognition, support, awareness and accountability. Rather, it is a wide-angle view of the journey that acknowledges how much one must go through to heal, as well as how much recognition one will feel for themselves when they do this excruciatingly beautiful work. It is huge. Eventually, the focused and more expanded views come together within, creating wholeness in a single point. Two points make a line. As we emerge. Connection emerges. We are making a lot of points. We are struggling to do the work of allowing the lines of connection to emerge.

 

This is why this conversation matters so much.

 

The beliefs, feelings and words that materialize during our time can live forever.

 

In the context of UPW or any TR event, Tony is always pushing people to look at more facets and possibilities of what else is really happening and what’s really going to help someone realize their full potential. To recognize one’s full potential is a part of the process of breaking through the pain and hurt to move toward healing and living one’s best life. Out of context and even in context, this can look and feel harsh and authoritative. If you look at it another way, you might see that the approach is giving a person the chance to mirror his energy and approach to connect with the strong person inside them who wants to live in full expression and doesn't let anyone or anything diminish their sense of self and worthiness.

 

We live in a world where people are desperate for relief, recognition and healing. MeToo sees this. Tony sees this. Everyone sees this. We all see it differently. Sometimes we see it the same, but not always at the same points in time. Tony is seeing things from a different point and he ought to have considered the choice of taking the time to explain more about this. Although, I see why he did not. What he does is beyond the realm of healing. I think that one of the major challenges with his interaction with Nanine McCool is that MeToo survivors are early in the healing process and you can’t really only partially recognize this or push through it too quickly or bypass it. Tony knows this, but he says a lot of truths before people are ready because he knows it might help them in the future and he’s not talking to the victim, he’s talking to the infinite you. Your infinite self can understand anything. Even the story about his rich friend. Is the powerful, rich man justified or to be pardoned for making a weak and discriminatory business decision for his company, because he questions his own ability to interact respectfully and professionally with an attractive woman? Is the point that discrimination and inequality will continue because of fear? It’s a tricky conversation, but I am curious if the point was to share information about what’s happening now to point out that in some cases we’re reverting to pre-women’s movement behavior. It’s not right, but it is a part of reality and we cannot ignore that if we really want change for women and men, girls and boys. In my vision, we want compassion, love and equality for all humans, all genders and races.

 

At this point, I do want to recognize that all of this is me trying to make sense of my own world. I have taken the time and consideration to imagine what Tony was not fully aware of or able to explain in the moment or even in hindsight, because of the dissonance and sadness I was experiencing when I listened with my whole self.

 

When I listened with my whole self, the unified message is this:
Men do not know how to communicate with women.

Verbally, intellectually, emotionally, spiritually or physically.
If we’re really honest, we’d recognize this as:
The genders do not know how to communicate with each other. 
In essence, we ought to begin to know what we’re really dealing with is:
The humans do not know how to communicate with each other.
 

We are stuck in the deep grooves of these patterns together. We have not quite awakened to the idea that we are all attempting to learn something new and it’s going to take time, getting it wrong and a lot of compassion, forgiveness and practice to embody the change we really want to see. We also need to have a shared vision and this is part of the work that we must begin together, now.

It all comes back to listening.
We are not listening. We don’t really even know how to truly listen.
To ourselves. To others.
When you find yourself truly listening, you will know the difference.
#alltheloveandnoexcuses is what it feels like to me.
In my experience, it feels like I don’t know what I’m going to say next.
I have curiosity about what the other person is saying, how they’re feeling and where they are coming from.
I want to know what they truly mean and if I am truly understanding them.
I do the practice of seeing and listening past my own vision, past my own understanding of who they are to me and past my own meanings of the words they’re saying to me.
I do the practice of letting them be who they believe themselves to be and I do the practice of supporting them without worrying or judging.
I find joy in being surprised by my own free flowing expression and compassion when I do the practice of listening with my whole self.

 

There is a lot of good in this interaction because Nanine, Tarana, MeToo and the viral video really have disrupted Tony’s pattern as much as he has shocked them. That’s why my gut has been on fire with urgency.

 

An opportunity is being missed or avoided or shut down or concealed by corporate public relations fear, by leaders for which I have much higher hope and I imagine may actually consider what I’m seeing and sharing. I imagine this is a part of their life’s work and purpose, to face a challenge that simultaneously grows themselves and creates exponential change.

 

I’m here to say: We’re here. The time IS now. We need you.

It would be courageous and wise to consider my invitation as real and worthy. Urgent and important.

 

If you’re reading this and there are things that bother or offend you about what and how I’m sharing, it’s okay. I understand. I often feel bothered by what and how I’m experiencing and expressing myself, too. It is not easy to express ourselves fully because we really might bother or offend someone very deeply. Is it okay to make mistakes or to demonstrate how much we truly don’t understand in the midst of trying to understand? Where can we go from here? Is it possible to imagine there is an opportunity being presented?

 

You never have to consider or look at things in other ways.
You are always welcome to have your experience in your own way.
  [Read the sentence above more than once and you may have a multi-dimensional experience.]
This is the experience you will have — what you choose.
We are always choosing.
 

This is why I felt compelled to acknowledge the expanded space in the arena. It allowed me the choice to step back and focus on the things that I needed to try and understand. You’ve probably noticed that much of this has been about what Tony is saying and that’s because it was harder for me to feel like I was really understanding what he was saying and why he felt the need to share it in the way he did. I feel like I quickly had an understanding of what Nanine and Tarana are saying. And, I'll be honest that I had to work through the process of not feeling like I had to choose one side or the other.

 

There was a whisper: MeThree.

 

I shared this writing for some feedback with the subject line "MeThree," which I mentioned was just a placeholder title and that I would be changing it. It was the first thing that came through clearly about how I was feeling, but I also wasn't sure if it felt like a dig at MeToo, even though the feeling and the point for me was to complement and support. I wanted to be mindful of triggering more distraction in the arena.

 

One female friend shared: "My only gut reaction is, keep the title as MeThree. It speaks to the outside viewer in us in every situation. Whether it's listening to someone tell you a story and you having to give feedback; or in this situation, you seeing two sides to a story that's being played out in real time."

 

Thank you, my friend. I hear you and feel so grateful to be heard.

 

I believe that real change starts one-to-one beginning with self.
It would serve our nation and our world a lot of good to see people like Tony Robbins, Nanine McCool and Tarana Burke come together and transform the energy, the separation and the practice of retreating to the safety of the constructs of publicity and social media platforms.

 

What's clear to me:

The What = Let's break the collective pattern and have a real conversation to learn what we need to be learning at this time.

The Why = To learn and teach about how we can create connection and change in a way that is aligned with our purpose and mission by working outside of the current constructs and practices.

How = Accept this invitation to arrive together on middle ground with the intent to practice the art of listening and receiving understanding.

 

Are you listening?

 

What are you choosing?

 

All the love and no excuses.

 

Brightly,

Laura Peppin




 

[CONSIDERING YOU.]

Her words as art.

Her words as art.

BRILLIANCE.

BRILLIANCE.

With great honor and permission, I share this letter in honor of the brave and lovable Kelly Rose on her birthday. You are truly a gift. Thank you for being my friend and for sharing your brilliance.

Considering you.

There are so many things that you shared today that stood out to me as brilliant gems of who you are. The visual to me is like, all the beauty comes out in these little glints that light you up so others can see and know who you are.

When I asked you what you liked about this idea of a person of interest knowing your family, knowing parts of who you are and where you come from without you having to decide whether or not and when to share which parts — you said,

“Because...

This is who I am.
I'm already standing in my truth.”

These are two really simple and beautiful acknowledgements, and there's a lot of dimension to them. I want to you to see them out in front of you, because there are many voices within us and they are all valid in their own ways, but there is always the one voice that is us.

This is who I am.
I'm already standing in my truth.

Look again and allow yourself to feel and know these words without the need for any other context. I think that this is an important point. You are whole. You are complete. You are distinguishable. You are beautiful. You are you. You are truth.

That is ALL.
ALL as in everything.
ALL as in only.
ALL as in always.
ALL as in whole.
ALL as in all the parts as one.
ALL as in simply and beautifully you, every part, every version past, present and future.

So, your clear, true voice came out today to say these words aloud, to be acknowledged, recognized and to ask to be honored.

Did you hear yourself today?

Did you hear ALL of yourself today in that one voice speaking to you, speaking out these words so the sound current and energy of the true meaning could resonate in waves and find their way back to you?

ALL you need is YOU.

One of your most beautiful gifts that I have always admired, appreciated and loved so much about you, is that you have this really beautiful way of being you. You take what you feel are your fails or lacks or desperate hopes and you put them out in the open and talk about them with others in a way that is so humble and willing to learn and work through it all. You're very courageous. You are open and trusting of others and I can see that you come from a place of love in the way that you see and treat others as sources of love, goodness, support, truth. It is clear you see them as worthy and willing to help, and ask them to share their gifts.

I don't know what is next for you, but I am here for you, as a safe space or time traveler or a mirror or playback device.

There is one other thing that is showing up that I can share. I think it may relate to the question about approach that you are in the midst of sorting out, because it is important. Whenever we find ourselves needing to figure out an approach, that leads us to find the answer to an important question. What is my purpose here (this may be in the grand sense or in a more situational sense, either way they are probably the same or parts of the one).

What is the opportunity you can give to someone of interest to share their gift with you, so you can know each other on some real level?

I don't know if you will see or know the same as what I'm sensing here, but my sense is that when you sort out your purpose, then the gem as a whole is present and visible. The glints of brilliance sparkle and capture our attention for sure and make us feel SO good, but we don't always get to see the gem as a whole if we get caught up in the sparkle. Those who take the time to know, know that each gem is amazing because of how it came into existence and what it endured in order to be here and be discovered. That's why and how a gem gets to sparkle and shine. It takes time and a certain capacity to learn about a gem enough to fully appreciate them for what they are, but that process is the best part. That’s when we realize that we actually can never truly know the whole thing and we don't even need to. We can just appreciate a gem for what it adds to our experience.

Ah...a fear and another facet appear.

IS it easier if someone knows other things about you through their experience with your family?

IS what someone said an important connection to why this is a struggle and how you choose or allow this to unfold (either in this realm or in the suspended realm it is currently unfolding)?

IS that feeling from adolescence another important connection to why this is a struggle and how you choose or allow this to unfold (either in this realm or in the suspended realm it is currently unfolding)?

With all of these little bits of fiery brilliance being shined in your eyes from others, it is really hard to see what the eff is going on, but as I show you the parts you've shown me, are you seeing a picture or some kind of constellation taking shape?

What do you truly, truly know to be true as the unified message coming from these outside sources and the conflict within you that you are feeling?

How does your true, clear voice recognize all of these things that are appearing?

And, where are you?

This is who I am.
I'm already standing in my truth.

Take your time.
Go inward and have fun with this process.
This is the creative process.
This is what it is to know who you are.

This is what it is to learn to express yourself as your whole lovable and worthy self at any and every given or chosen time.

Without apology.
Without anticipation.
Without expectation.
Without judgment.
Without history.
Without consistency.
Without comparison.
Without worry.
Without fear.
Without exhaustion.
Without doubt.
Without anyone else in mind but you.
Without stifling.
Without needing more.
Without terms.
Without negotiations.
Without contingencies.
Without testing.

Without pros.
Without cons.
Without anyone but you.
Without rules.
Without guidelines.
Without a timer.
Without a finish line.
Without fragmentation.
Without exception.
Without editing.
Without fanfare.

I adore and love you always and evermore.
Your journey is beautiful.
You are worthy and important.

All the love and no excuses,
LP

"WHAT IS YOUR BLUEPRINT FOR LIFE?"

A wonderful, new friend sent me a link to a beautifully edited version of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.'s "What Is Your Life's Blueprint?" speech. I was really grateful because it felt like such a timely gift as I continue to practice my purpose in life.

Much of Dr. King's message applies to all humans — that's the bold blessing of this man and his work. He embodied his message of worthiness, excellence, and relentless love, beauty and justice. His brilliant actions and words always had the intention and ability to bring people together — within themselves, within community and with all. 

There is great importance and honor in recognizing Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. wholly and fully within the context, the history and the experience of African American people then and now. Recognition of worthiness, excellence, love, beauty and justice in the form of not forgetting, fragmenting, doubting or denying lives and histories is the message that came to me as I watched the entire speech.

I invite you to watch Dr. King's full speech, because I felt different after watching both versions. It made me remember the powerful effects of editing, context and choice that we all exercise internally and externally; and how important it is to be aware and curious about origin.

See below for the link to the full speech delivered to students at Barratt Junior High School in Philadelphia on October 26, 1967. I bolded some lines in the transcription below the video that really resonated with me.

Fun fact: in the comments on the YouTube page, there's a great post from the guy who shot the video when he was 12 or 13 and how he'd always wanted to share it with his family, but hadn't been able to find it until he found it on YouTube (posted by the Beacon Press).

Transcription
I want to ask you a question, and that is:
What is in your life’s blueprint?
This is a most important and crucial period of your lives for what you do now and what you decide now at this age may well determine which way your life shall go.
Whenever a building is constructed, you usually have an architect who draws a blueprint, and that blueprint serves as the pattern, as the guide, as the model for those who are to build the building, and a building is not well erected without a good, sound and solid blueprint.
Now each of you is in the process of building the structure of your lives, and the question is whether you have a proper, a solid and a sound blueprint.
I want to suggest some of the things that should be in your life’s blueprint.
Number one in your life’s blueprint should be a deep belief in your own dignity, your own worth and your own somebodiness.
Don’t allow anybody to make you feel that you are nobody. Always feel that you count. Always feel that you have worth, and always feel that your life has ultimate significance. Now that means you should not be ashamed of your color. You know that it is very unfortunate that in so many instances our society has placed a stigma on the Negro’s color.
You know that there are some Negroes who are ashamed of themselves. Don’t be ashamed of your color. Don’t be ashamed of your biological features. Somehow you must be able to say in your own lives and really believe it I am black but beautiful and believe it in your heart. And therefore, you need not be lured into purchasing cosmetics advertised to make you lighter. Neither do you need to process your hair to make it appear straight. I have good hair and it is has good as anyone else’s hair in the world. And we have to believe that. Now in your life’s blueprint be sure that you have there the principal of somebodiness.
Secondly, in your life’s blueprint you must have as a basic principle the determination to achieve excellence in your various fields of endeavor. You’re going to be deciding as the days and the years unfold what you will do in life — what your life’s work will be. And once you discover what it will be, set out to do it, and to do it well.
And I say to you, my young friends, that doors are opening to each of you—doors of opportunity are open to each of you that were not open to your mothers and your fathers — and the great challenge facing you is to be ready to enter these doors as they open.
Ralph Waldo Emerson, the great essayist, said, in a lecture back in 1871, that “If a man can write a better book or preach a better sermon or make a better mousetrap than his neighbor, even if he builds his house in the woods, the world will make a beaten path to his door.” That hadn’t always been true — but it will become increasingly true, and so I would urge you to study hard, to burn the midnight oil; I would say to you, don’t drop out of school. And I understand all the sociological reasons why we often drop out of school, but I urge you, in spite of your economic plight, in spite of the situation that you are forced to live so often with intolerable conditions — stay in school.
And when you discover what you are going to be in life, set out to do it as if God Almighty called you at this particular moment in history to do it. And don’t just set out to do a good negro job but do a good job that anybody can do. Don’t just set out to be a good negro doctor, a good negro lawyer, a good negro school teacher, a good negro preacher, a good negro barber, or negro beautician, a good negro skilled labor. For if you set out to do that you have already flunked your matriculation exam for entrance into the University of Integration.
Set out to do a good job so well that the living, the dead and the unborn couldn’t do it any better. If it falls your lot to be a street sweeper, sweep streets like Michelangelo painted pictures, sweep streets like Beethoven composed music, sweep streets like Leontyne Price sings before the Metropolitan Opera. Sweep streets like Shakespeare wrote poetry. Sweep streets so well that all the hosts of heaven and earth will have to pause and say: Here lived a great street sweeper who swept his job well.
If you can’t be a pine on the top of the hill, be a scrub in the valley. But be the best little scrub on the side of the hill. Be a bush if you can’t be a tree. If you can’t be a highway, just be a trail. If you can’t be the sun, be a star. For it isn’t by size that you win or you fail be the best of whatever you are.
We always, we already, have some noble examples of black men and black women who have demonstrated to us that human nature cannot be catalogued. They in their own lives have walked through long and desolate nights of oppression and yet they have risen up and plunged against cloud filled nights of affliction - new emblazoned stars of inspiration.
And so from an old slave cabin of Virginia’s hills Booker T. Washington rose up to be one of America’s great leaders. He lit a torch in Alabama and darkness fled in that City.
And yes you should know this because it is your own city from a poverty stricken area of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania Marian Anderson rose up to be the world’s greatest contralto so that Toscani could say that a voice like this only comes once in a century. And Sibelius of Finland could say my roof is too low for such a voice.
And the red hills of Gordon County, Georgia in the arms of a mother who could neither read or write Roland Hayes rose up to be one of the world’s great singers and carried his melodious voice into the palaces and mansions of kings and queens.
From crippling circumstances there came a George Washington Carver to carve for himself an imperishable nitch in the annals of science.
There was a star in the diplomatic sky and then came Ralph Benson, the grandson of a slave preacher and he reached up and grabbed it and allowed it to shine in his life with all of its scintillating beauty.
There was a star in the athletic sky and then came Jackie Robinson in his day and Willie Mays in his day with their powerful bats and their calm spirits. And then came Jesse Owens with his fleet and dashing feet. Then came Joe Lewis and Muhammad Ali with their educated fists.
All of them came to tell us that we can be somebody and to justify the conviction of the poet “Fleecy lock, and black complexion cannot forfeit nature’s claim. Skin may differ, but affection dwells in black and white the same.” And if “Were I so tall as to reach the pole to or grasp at the ocean at a span, I must be measured by my soul; the mind is the standard of the man.”
And finally, in your life’s blueprint must be a commitment to the eternal principles of beauty, love and justice.
Don’t allow anybody to pull you so low as to make you hate them.
Don’t allow anybody to cause you to lose your self-respect to the point that you do not struggle for justice.
However young you, are you have a responsibility to seek to make your nation a better nation in which to live. You have a responsibility to seek to make life better for everybody and so you must be involved in the struggle for freedom and justice.
Now in this struggle for freedom and justice there are many constructive things that we all can do and that we all must do and we must not give ourselves to those things which will not solve our problems.
You have heard the words “non-violent” and you have heard the word “violent”. I happen to believe in non-violence. We struggle with this method with young people and adults alike. All over the South and we won some significant victories and we have to struggle with it all over the North. Because the problems in the North are as serious in the North as they are in the South. I believe that as we struggle with these problems we have to struggle with them with a method that can be militant but at the same time does not destroy life or property.
And so our slogan must not be burn baby burn. It must be build baby build. Organize to organize. Yes, our slogan must be learn baby learn so we can earn baby earn.
And with a powerful commitment I believe we can transform dark yesterdays of injustice into bright tomorrows of justice and humanity. Let us keep going toward the goal of self-hood, to the realization of the dream of brotherhood and toward the realization of the dream of understanding good will. Let nobody stop us.
And I close by quoting once more the man the young lady quoted that magnificent black bard who has now passed on, Langston Hughes. One day he wrote a poem entitled “Mother to Son” and the mother didn’t always have her grammar right but she uttered words of great symbolic profundity: "Well, son, I'll tell you: life for me ain't been no crystal stair. It's had tacks in it, boards torn up, and places with no carpet on the floor -- bare. But all the time I'se been aclimbin' on, and reachin' landin's, and turnin' corners, and sometimes goin' in the dark where there ain't been no light. So boy, don't you stop now. Don't you set down on the steps 'cause you finds it's kinder hard. For I'se still goin', boy, I'se still climbin', and life for me ain't been no crystal stair."
Well, life for none of us has been a crystal stair, but we must keep moving. We must keep going. And, if you can't fly, run. If you can't run, walk. If you can't walk, crawl. But by all means, keep moving.

…NOT YOUR HEALER…

I am not your or anyone else’s “healer.”

It is important to make this distinction at this time when complementary and alternative health care approaches are gaining global interest and acceptance. There are many helpful modalities and practitioners to explore, and what works for one person may not have the same benefit for another. What works for you at one time, may not have the same benefit for you at other times. As words on a page or thoughts in the mind, this seems both logical and reasonable, but in day-to-day life it feels frustrating and disappointing for a person who is not well and in need of relief.

I’m not certain if this is true for everyone, but it seems like a majority of people are of the mindset that healing is a process. From there, healing seems to be somewhat of a broad term to me. It is within the dimensions of the concept or of a specific person, where the complexities of the concept of healing emerge. A person who is terminal may have a healing experience that does not prevent them from dying of disease. A person who is physically injured may have wounds that fully heal, yet they do not feel an improvement in their sense of health and well-being. A sense of healing seems to be needed physically and energetically in order for a person to feel and be well again.

But, what happens next? Matters of health are often costly in terms of time, money, physical, mental, emotional and spiritual demand, so it comes back to individual beliefs and choice. Usually, once a person feels better they go back to their life until their health and wellness is suffering again. Sometimes a person will value their renewed sense of well-being so much that they begin to change their life. Here, I am speaking from my own past experiences as well as a witness to others’. Either way, it is likely we can all see the difference between choosing the mindset to be healed versus "activating the creative process of well-being."

A point that is clearly emerging is that the concept of healing greatly benefits from a shift or expansion of the concept to include this dynamic idea of activating the creative process of well-being. It is my experience in my own life and as a witness for others, that it is absolutely necessary for a person to be an active participant and guide for fueling and improving their sense of healing, health and well-being. The goal of energy work, from the Blueprint Wellness point of view, is for you to experience an increased sense of well-being as defined or perceived by you. This makes sense because people do have different definitions and expectations for their own health and well-being, regardless of whether or not they align with the metrics or definitions of any health institution or authority.

While healing does seem to occur in a more passive state there is always active participation needed in order to open up to that passive state. A person must feel open to the practitioner and give permission to do the work, whether it is a Western, Eastern or other complementary approach. Perhaps the reason this point is arising, is to remind us that we are always in charge and an active participant in matters of our health and well-being.

This is why I do not feel it would be true for me to call myself anyone’s “healer,” and why I am not interested in this kind of relationship with my clients. This is something that feels important to discuss and explain upfront, because it is a potential shift in the mind and belief system involving each of our expectations about the experience and the benefit(s). Allowing or encouraging anyone to imagine that I am healing them or that I have special abilities is a distraction from their process and ability to trust their own experience. 

There is little to no lasting benefit in a linear, one-directional type of relationship or expectations for clients or practitioners. This is currently a primary concern with the approach of Western medicine and subsequently why complementary and alternative health care is on the incline. The important point here, is that there are goals and responsibilities that the practitioner and client ought to discuss about the approach and expectations prior to working together.

What are you noticing about your own beliefs or ideas about healing, health and well-being?
What kind of approach do you imagine for yourself and your practitioner?
What kind of expectations or beliefs limit or support you?
What are you choosing when you are not in crisis?
Would it feel different to take the approach of activating your creative process of well-being rather than focusing on healing?
How would you feel about your current sense or state of well-being? Physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually?

The goal is to tap into curiosity and creativity around the thoughts and actions a person knows they must choose in order to create their own sense of healing, health and well-being. This supports a person to be a creator rather than a receiver of healing, health and well-being. It also shifts the experience away from crisis and into growth and enjoyment.

This all feels clear, true and real for me at this time, but as always, is subject to revision or expansion with new information and experience. The intent of this blog post is to share an internal conversation that feels worthy of sharing with you for feedback or for you to explore on your own.

Please feel free to share your thoughts or questions with the Blueprint Wellness community.

Brightly,
Laura Peppin

∆ BRILLIANT LOVE ∆

Sharing this excerpt in honor of the life and death of my Mom...

Thank you all for being here today, it means a lot and it’s been so uplifting to see the love, joy and laughter that bubbles up through the sadness. It’s a pretty good cocktail of emotions we’ve created and it feels good to be here with all of you, really feeling it all, sipping and not rushing through it. Really, let’s not rush through this. Today is a special day and I have vowed to not just let it pass or be rushed. I ask you to pause with me to take a second to arrive in this moment. Take a moment to close your eyes and put your hands on over your heart and feel your heartbeat. You are alive and it is okay to smile and feel great. You showed up for Debby and her family today and in doing that you also showed up for yourself. Breathe in a thank you from us and breathe out a thank you to yourself for all that you did to make it here today.

Breath is often a subtle aspect of life and living, yet it is so powerful in its ability to transform, heal and renew our cells, our minds and our spirits. Not long ago, I listened to Tony Robbins talk about smoking and it really helped me have more compassion and understanding for my Mom. He says something to the effect that smoking is actually more about needing to breathe deeply and get into a different mental and emotional state. This makes sense to me and helped me see that my Mom is basically a master of meditation in her own way. This idea also reminds me of an episode of the TV show, This is Us, where a husband and wife are really struggling with each other in a heated conversation and finally, the wife walks off, leans up against the car and starts smoking an imaginary cigarette. The husband joins her and takes a puff off the imaginary cigarette and with that the tension dissipates and they are able to take the time to be together in that space to listen and share rather than fight and defend. This scene captures exactly what Tony Robbins recognizes about the power of breath and the physical action of smoking.

Today, in honor of the life and death of Debby, take your time to breathe and to go at your own pace. Let’s take one deep breath to send out some love and peace out to those who are with us in spirit, whether they are with my Mom or caught up with life stuff and unable to physically be here, we acknowledge them with all love and gratitude.

[In through the nose, out through the heart.]

In my experience, I’ve learned that death is a beautiful reminder. Death always reminds me that life is real, that I am alive, that I always have everything and everyone that I need and that everything equally really matters and doesn’t really matter so much. Each part is equal to and part of the whole. This means that death is an equal part of living and that all the experiences of a lifetime are whole and worthy in themselves and also as part of the whole. This also means that life is not linear or cumulative, each experience can always be seen as its own bit of brilliance, allowing us to see something we need to see, making us brighter and more of who we are.

I am proud to be up here honoring my Mom, because I have so much to recognize her for. She has stood and honored me for a lifetime. She protected and supported me to be who I am. She gave me life.

Because my Mom always allowed me to be who I am, I am able to share my writing with you, which is an important part of how I am able to express myself best. This is me emanating all the love she has for me back to her and out to all of you to witness, receive and reflect into the world in your own way.

+ We stand strong on our own when we must
+ When we feel moved to do so
+ When there is no question, no doubt and no fear about who or why we are
+ When we realize and experience we are not alone
+ When we realize and experience how we are in our own way and we are so good
+ When we realize and experience that imperfect and ever-expanding are perfect
+ When we realize and experience that our part matters
+ When we realize and experience that we are connected to self and to each and to all and to the whole one
+ When we realize and experience that we are in love always
+ When we realize and experience that love is a state of awareness
+ When we realize and experience that we are love, a unique expression and integrated part of the awareness
+ When we realize and experience a true purpose of life
+ There are many true purposes at all points in life
+ The true purpose I embody and share with you today has to do with expressing who I am, what I sense and what I know in my own unique way
+ I stand here today as an embodiment of Brilliant Love
+ Brilliant Love is a subtle gift I constantly receive from my Mom
+ It is her Brilliant Love that lifts and supports me to stand and speak with purity and brightness to honor her in life
+ She has always radiated Brilliant Love for me
+ Brilliant Love happens through experiencing the harmony of all the senses as one, it’s just something you feel, know and recognize
+ Brilliant Love is the greatest wisdom and power we have the ability to transmit and receive simply through awareness
+ Brilliant Love is our original, intuitive, universal language

Thank you, Mom for all the Love. Thank you all for being here in this moment of expression together. I am able to see and know more of my Mom and myself through each of you and I hope that what I’ve shared has illuminated even just a tiny fraction of the undying, all-loving force and beauty of who my Mom is to me. Whether we truly realize it or not, we’ve activated a healing process by creating this time and space to honor and witness my Mom and ourselves as Brilliant Love.

+Sat Nam, Good Mom+

 

©2017 Laura Peppin, be kind and bright, please cite source properly.